what is depression ,anxiety and Symptoms
What Is Depression And Symptoms
Depression in Adults
This information booklet
is for anyone who has been feeling depressed, anxious, overwhelmed or hopeless,
who feels they are going through a lot of hardship and also those who are
concerned that they may have depression. We hope it will also be helpful for relatives
and friends.
It describes what
depression feels like (both in your mind and in your body), how you can help
yourself, what help is available, and how to help someone else who is
depressed.
What is the difference
between feeling sad and being depressed?
Everyone has times in their life when they are fed up or feel sad. It usually happens for no particular reason, doesn't interfere much with daily life, and usually doesn't last more than a week or two.
However, if these
feelings last for weeks or months or become so bad that they start to affect
every area of your life, you may be suffering from depression and need to get
help.
What are the symptoms
of depression?
People experience
different levels of depression in different ways. Depression levels are mild,
moderate, or severe.
People's experience of
depression is also influenced by their cultural background and their personal
values, beliefs, and language.
If you are suffering from
depression, you may experience some of the following:
In your mind you:
Feel unhappy, miserable, low on energy, depressed - this feeling won't go away and may be worse at certain times of the day, often in the morning
Can't be happy about
anything
Losing interest in
socialising with people and keeping in touch with friends
Can't concentrate
properly and finding it difficult to make decisions
Losing self-esteem
Feeling guilty and
worthless
Becoming hopeless
Starting to feel
hopeless, and perhaps even suicidal.
In your body you may
find that you:
Feel anxious, nervous or irritable
Feel tired and have no
energy
Can't sleep or sleep too
much
Wake up early in the
morning and/or throughout the night
Have headaches or stomach
upset
Lose interest in sex
Can't eat and lose weight
or can eat more easily and gain weight
Others may notice that
you:
- Seem unusually quiet and withdrawn or avoid people
- Worry about things more than usual
- Are more irritable than usual
- Sleep more or less than usual
- Complain about vague physical problems
- Stop taking good care of yourself - you don't wash your hair or clothes
- Stop taking good care of your home - you stop cooking, don't put things away neatly or forget to change the sheets on your bed
- Most people will not experience all of these and some may only be aware of the physical symptoms. You may think you have a medical condition because you feel very tired or have trouble sleeping, but these physical symptoms could be the first signs of depression.
- You may not realize how depressed you are, especially if it has come on gradually. Sometimes people try to fight it off and even blame themselves for being lazy or lacking in willpower.
- Sometimes you need a friend or partner to convince you that there really is a problem and to suggest that you get help.
You may need to seek
help if you or a friend or partner notice that:
- Your feelings of depression are affecting your work, interests, and feelings for family and friends.
- Your feelings of depression have been going on for some time and don't seem to be getting better.
- You find yourself feeling that life is not worth living or that other people would be better off without you.
What about anxiety?
- Some people may also feel very anxious when they are depressed.
- You may feel withdrawn, worried, fearful all the time, and find it difficult to go out or be around people. Or you may experience physical symptoms such as dry mouth, sweating, shortness of breath, or stomach cramps.
- If you are suffering from depression and anxiety, the one that is causing you the most trouble will be treated.
What about bipolar
disorder (or manic depression)?
Some people with depression may also experience periods of extreme happiness and excitement. This is called 'mania' and could mean that you have bipolar disorder (formerly known as manic depression).
Why does depression
happen?
Depression is not a sign
of weakness. It can happen to the most determined people – even famous people,
athletes and celebrities can suffer from depression.
Sometimes the reason for
feeling depressed will be obvious, sometimes not. It could be hopelessness,
disappointment or the loss of something or someone important.
There is often more than
one reason and these will be different for different people. We have listed
some of the most common reasons below.
Life events and
personal circumstances
Depression can be
triggered by a stressful or traumatic event, such as bereavement, a breakup, or
the loss of a job.
If your life
circumstances mean that you live alone or have no friends or family around you,
you may be more likely to develop depression.
Physical Health
Sleep, diet, and exercise
all have an impact on our mood and how we cope.
Physical health problems,
especially serious or long-term ones, can cause or worsen depression.
Life-threatening
illnesses such as cancer and heart disease
Long-term and/or painful
illnesses, such as arthritis
Viral infections such as
the flu or glandular fever – especially in young people
Hormonal problems, such
as an underactive thyroid
Conditions affecting the
brain or nervous system
Childhood trauma
Some people may be more
prone to depression than others. This may be due to difficult childhood
experiences or trauma, which may include abuse (physical, sexual or
psychological), neglect, witnessing violence or a traumatic event, or an
unstable family environment.
Alcohol and drug use
Regularly drinking too
much alcohol or using drugs like marijuana can increase your risk of developing
depression over the long term.
Genetic factors
Similar genetic 'risk
factors' include whether someone develops major depression, bipolar disorder or
schizophrenia. There are also environmental risk factors, and these can
interact with genetic risk factors to increase or decrease your risk of
developing these conditions.
For example, you may have genetic risk factors that mean you are more likely to develop major depression. However, if you grow up or live in a stable and positive environment, this may reduce your risk of serious mental illness.
Having a parent with a
serious mental illness, such as major depression, is the strongest risk factor
for developing a serious mental illness themselves. Children with a parent with
a serious mental illness have a 1 in 3 chance of developing a serious mental
illness themselves.
When thinking about the causes of depression, it is important to remember that there are many different things involved and that no single risk factor causes depression.
Do gender and
sexuality make a difference in depression?
Approximately 12% of pregnant women will experience depression during their pregnancy, while 15-20% will experience depression in the first year after giving birth.
Transgender people (those who identify with a gender other than the one they were assigned at birth) may experience higher levels of depression and anxiety than people with a gender identity other than the one they were assigned at birth. Non-binary people (those who do not identify as either male or female) may also experience higher levels of depression and anxiety.
People who identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual are more likely to have mental health problems (including depression) than people who do not identify as lesbian, gay, or bisexual. They are also more likely to commit suicide and self-harm.
Can I get better on my
own?
The good news is that
most people with depression will get better on their own by working on
themselves. You may be able to overcome your depression on your own, which will
give you a sense of achievement and give you the confidence to deal with such
feelings again if you feel depressed in the future.
Following some of the
suggestions in this booklet can shorten the duration of your depression and
help you to get better in the future.
But some people need
extra help, especially if their depression is severe or has been going on for a
long time, or if the ways they have tried to get better have not worked.
If you are experiencing
depression for the first time, you have about a 50:50 chance of getting
depressed again. That’s why it’s important to know how to get help if you need
it.
Sometimes it can take a
while for other people to understand how you feel. Be persistent and don’t give
up – you can find the right help.
How can I help myself?
Here are some suggestions
you can try when you feel depressed. It is important to find what works best
for you and make your own list of helpful strategies.
Talk to someone:
If you have received bad news or have had a major
problem in your life, don’t try to shut it down. It can help to tell someone
close to you how you feel about it. If you don’t feel like you can talk to
someone, try writing down how you feel.
Stay active:
If you can, get out for some exercise, even just
a short walk. This will help you stay physically fit and sleep better. It can
also help you focus on other things and not on painful thoughts and feelings.
Eat properly:
You may not feel very hungry, but try to eat
regularly. When you have depression, it’s easy to lose weight quickly and
become deficient in vitamins – or to eat too much junk food and gain unwanted
weight – all at once. A balanced diet, including plenty of fruits and
vegetables, can help keep your body and mind healthy.
Avoid alcohol and drugs:
Alcohol may make you feel
better for a few hours, but it can actually make depression worse in the long
run. This also applies to illegal drugs, especially marijuana, amphetamines,
cocaine, and ecstasy.
Establish a sleep routine:
Try to go to bed at the
same time every night and wake up at the same time every morning. Before bed,
do something relaxing that you enjoy, like listening to soothing music or
reading a book. If you can't sleep, get out of bed and do something calming,
like sitting quietly on the couch.
Try relaxing activities:
If you feel stressed
all the time, try relaxation exercises, yoga, massage, aromatherapy, or another
activity.
Do something you enjoy:
Set aside regular time to
do something you really enjoy – like playing a game, reading, or another hobby.
Read about depression:
There are many books and websites about
depression. They can help you understand what is happening, give you strategies
for coping better, and help friends and family understand what you are going
through.
Practice self-compassion:
You may be a perfectionist who works too hard at your job. Try to set more realistic goals or expectations for yourself. Be kind to yourself.
Take a break:
Getting away from your daily routine for a few
days can really help. Give yourself a break from your daily stress and worries.
If you can change your environment, even for a few hours, it can be helpful.
Join a support group:
It can be difficult to help yourself when you
have depression. Talking to other people in a similar situation can be helpful.
Stay optimistic:
Remind yourself that many other people have had
depression and gotten better – there is help available and you deserve the
support you need to feel better.
What can I do to help
with depression?
If trying to get better
on your own isn't working as well or as quickly as you'd like, it might be a
good idea to talk to your GP.
Most people with
depression are treated by their GP. If you don't have a regular GP, try to find
a doctor in your local practice who you feel comfortable with and who you can
see regularly.
Your GP will talk to you
to assess your symptoms and find out which treatments will work for you.
The best treatment for
you will depend on the current level of your depression, how long it has been
going on, and whether you have had depression in the past.
Your GP can also do a
proper physical check-up for you. This is because some physical illnesses can
cause depression. If you are already being treated for a physical illness, it
will be important for your GP to know about it.
Initial treatment
(mild depression)
If you are experiencing
depression for the first time, you will not usually be offered antidepressant
medication. Your GP may recommend a low-intensity psychological intervention
(or talking therapy) such as:
Your GP can also do a
proper physical check-up for you. This is because some physical illnesses can
cause depression. If you are already being treated for a physical illness, it
will be important for your GP to know about it.
Initial treatment
(mild depression)
If you are experiencing
depression for the first time, you will not usually be offered antidepressant
medication. Your GP may recommend a low-intensity psychological intervention
(or talking therapy) such as:
Self-help booklets or
books based on the principles of cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) (endorsed
by a healthcare professional)
A self-help computerised
CBT programme (also endorsed by a healthcare professional)
Group exercise
A group programme is
based on peer-endorsed self-help or CBT.
Your GP can help you make
the right choice for you.
If these do not work well
for you, your GP may suggest trying one of the interventions in the next
section as a treatment for moderate to severe depression.
Further treatment (for
moderate to severe depression)
Your GP may prescribe
high-intensity psychological intervention or antidepressant medication, or
both. You can talk to them to decide which treatment is right for you.
Psychological
interventions
There are many types of
psychological interventions for people with depression and you can be referred
to one available in your local area.
If there is a waiting
list before receiving a specific psychological intervention, talk to your
doctor about what you can do to care for yourself in the meantime.
Cognitive Behavioral
Therapy (CBT)
In addition to what is
going on in life, many of us have negative thinking habits that are likely to
lead to and keep us depressed. CBT helps you:
Identifying any
unrealistic and unhelpful ways of thinking
Then developing new, more
helpful ways of thinking and behaving.
There is excellent
evidence that CBT is a treatment for depression.
Integer Therapy (IPT)
Integer therapy can help
you identify and resolve any problems in your relationships with family,
partners and friends.
Behavioral activation
Behavioral activation
encourages you to engage in more positive behaviors, such as planning
activities and doing constructive tasks that you might normally avoid.
Couple therapy
If it seems like your
relationship is having an impact on your depression, then couples therapy may
be appropriate to help you understand the connection between your depression
and your relationship. It can also help you develop a more supportive
relationship with your partner.
Counseling
Trained counselors can
help you explore your symptoms and problems and provide you with support and
guidance.
Psychodynamic
psychotherapy
This therapy helps you
see how your past experiences may be affecting your life in the here and now.
Depression medications
(antidepressants)
If your depression is moderate to severe or has been going on for a long time, your doctor may prescribe a course of antidepressants, usually a selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor (SSRI). They will talk to you about which antidepressant might work best. This will depend on whether you have taken antidepressants in the past, whether you are taking other medications, and whether you have any other health problems.
Do antidepressants
have side effects?
Like all medicines,
antidepressants have side effects, although they are usually mild and go away
after a few weeks.
Your doctor can advise
you on what to expect and you should talk to them if there is anything that
worries you or if you are experiencing too many side effects. You will also get
written information about the medicines from your pharmacist.
If an antidepressant
makes you drowsy, you should take it at night so that it can help you sleep.
However, if you feel sleepy during the day, you should not drive or operate
machinery until the effects wear off. If you also drink alcohol while you are
taking the pills, you may become very drowsy, so it is best to avoid it.
Unlike some other drugs
or alcohol (such as nicotine or alcohol), you will not feel like you need to
take more of an antidepressant to get the same effect.
How long do I need to
take antidepressants?
First, to make sure the
treatment is working, your doctor will need to see you regularly (every 2 weeks
initially, then every 4–2 weeks for the first 3 months, then less often).
If you have suicidal
thoughts or are under 30 years old, your doctor may want to see you more often
(usually weekly). This is because some antidepressants can initially increase
suicidal thoughts, especially if you are younger.
If antidepressants are
helpful, you should continue taking them for at least 6 months, even if you
feel better. This can help reduce the chance that your depression will return.
If you suddenly stop
taking antidepressants, you may experience withdrawal symptoms. These include
sleep problems, anxiety, dizziness, or stomach pain.
If you feel that the
antidepressants you are taking are not working (after about 3 to 4 weeks of
taking them), talk to your doctor, who may change your dose or offer you a
different type of antidepressant or medication.
Getting more help
(severe depression)
Most people with
depression get the help they need from their general practitioner. If your
depression does not improve after treatment with your general practitioner and
you need more specialist help, you may be referred to a specialist mental
health service or team.
The mental health
professional will want to know about your general background and any serious
illnesses or emotional problems you have had in the past.
They will ask about what
has been going on in your life recently, how your depression developed, and
whether you have already received any treatment for it.
It can be difficult to
answer all of these questions at times, but the information you provide will
help the doctor get to know you as a person and figure out the best options for
you.
If your depression is
severe or needs specialist treatment, you may need to come to the hospital for
treatment. Your care team will make sure you get the right treatment and
support that will benefit you.
Electroconvulsive
therapy (ECT)
Electroconvulsive therapy
(ECT for short) is most often used to treat:
Severe depression when
the person's life is at risk and needs immediate treatment. Moderate or severe
depression when other treatments have not helped.
ECT involves sending an electric current through the brain, so it is always given in a hospital under artificial anesthesia. Some people have temporary memory problems after ECT.
Alternative Medicines
St John's Wort is a
herbal medicine available from health food stores and pharmacies and is used by
some people to treat depression. Doctors do not usually prescribe or recommend
it because:
The ingredients can vary
from one type to another
It can cause serious problems when taken with other medicines (especially the contraceptive pill, blood thinners or medicines to prevent seizures).
If you want further
advice, you should discuss this with your GP or pharmacist.
How can I help someone
who is depressed?
Listen. This can be
harder than it sounds. You may have to hear the same thing over and over again.
It is usually best not to give advice unless it is asked for, even if the
answer seems obvious to you. If the depression is caused by a specific problem,
you can help them find a solution or at least a way to cope with the
difficulty.
Spend time with them.
Just spending time with the person with depression can also be helpful. Letting
them know that you are there for them can help encourage them to talk and
continue to work on feeling better.
Reassure them. It can be hard for someone with depression to
believe that they will ever get better. You can reassure them that they will
get better, but you may have to keep repeating this.
Support their
self-care. Make sure they are
getting enough food and eating regularly. Include a good amount of fruit and
vegetables in their diet. You can help them get out and do some exercise or
other enjoyable activities that can be a better alternative to using alcohol or
drugs to cope with their feelings.
Take them seriously. If they are getting worse and don't want to live
or start to make signs of harming themselves, take them seriously. Make sure
they tell their doctor.
Encourage them to seek
help. Encourage them to see their doctor, take their medication, or talk to
their therapist or counselor. If they are concerned about their treatment,
encourage them to talk to their doctor about it.
Take care of yourself. Helping someone with depression can be emotionally draining. So make sure you take care of your own mental and physical health as well.